I have tried everything
How to exit from offline mode to general ,silent,etc.I've tried everything
You posted the same question on both General Discussion and Flash Lite section. I merged them in single one and it is now here in the General discussion section. If you want to do something with Flash Lite programming then it can be moved to that area but please describe your problem in more detail.
But if your question has nothing to with Flash and if it is just end-user product question then you should better ask it here: http://discussions.europe.nokia.com/
All the best.
Nokia Developer Wiki Moderation team
If my memory serves me right, this was a problem (bug) in some of the phones of that era (N80 and relatives). I suspect only a Nokia repair center can assist you in fixing the phone (whether it is worth doing so for an old, out-of-warranty phone is a different matter).