I know there are other tools, didnt find that works for me
and didn't try that site that takes money (also user and pass are sent to their server).
also it made in python
So here it is.
works with the wap/gprs access if you set your operator proxy, which can be found in the connection advanced settings.
for now its very simple, it cant add recurrence events yet.
what it does for now is copying the normal events to the phone calendar,
tested on n95 only since that what i have.
in settings only need to set username, if password not set it will be queried later.
just need to go to Synchronize->test