Which Nokia Activ server are you talking about here. I believe the documentation can be followed once you get a hang of it. Please go through it and make sure the connections are made through it by checking it with toolkit or a real device. Then you can go for configurationg various things one by one. I am sorry but there is no other document at this moment. Could you please post a feedback as to how it is inconvinient and what is it that you are not able to implement.
Your comments are apprciated.